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Dear Lisa,
I will soon be 56 and have been married 25 years to the same man. We are always on the verge of bankruptcy. I am disabled now, this doesn't help. I also take care of my 94 year old mother. Do you see us ever getting out of debt- or does one of have to die to get the insurance money.?? No, I'm not planning anything. (Three fold law).
Life can be very depressing sometimes.
Thanks, BellaDonna

 

I know things can really be hard, and not feeling well and having the responsibility of another person to care for makes the money problems seem even bigger. But I do feel a positive change for you after the eclipse near Sept 22nd. Somehow you are going to hatch a plan to make some money on the side thru your ability to help people. This will be very rewarding for you both mentally and financially, think about how.

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My boyfriend of a year and I just broke up... its has really hit me hard and I have actually come to the point of suicide attempts 3 times. I truly love him. I am just curious if you see us having that same relationship and if not... will things ever get better for me?
Hopelessly Devoted

 

Why would you value yourself so little? How can this person be more important to you than you? Get a grip girl; there are loads of other people out there that are much healthier for you to b involved with. Get over him and move forward to a better life.

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Hi Lisa
I have two questions to ask you, I hope that is okay. Firstly, I have very troubled relationships with my parents and my sister. It causes me a lot of pain, as I feel I am treated, as a bit of joke and someone they almost dislike. My sister and I used to be very close, until things went wrong for various reasons, and now we only communicate through email. I hardly see her, and that upsets me a lot. I did try to resolve things some time ago, and we were very frank with each other, however I feel that things have not really improved. I would like to know whether she actually wants a better relationship with me, and if so how I can try to bring this about? Is it my fault things are like this, or is it just the way things are supposed to be? I'm not even sure she really cares about me or my family any longer.

 

Some people are just dangerously spaced out and unaware, you can't change this fact. Do your best and try to live with them, knowing you did your best.

Secondly, my husband has been trying without success to get a new job this year. Will he succeed within the next year, and if so, have you any feelings about whether it will be a good move for us?

 

I feel he may get a different position with the same company. But I do feel financial success. He just has to continue to deal with those people.

 

Another question, if that's okay. I am very unhappy in my job, and wish to return to practise reiki and reflexology, however I cannot afford to do so at the moment as I need a regular income. Do you see me changing jobs any time soon, and what path should I be on to be happy? Nothing has gone right for me for several years now.. my birthdate is 12.5.61. We are also thinking of putting our house on the market and moving to resolve some debts - is this wise, or should we wait? Many thanks.

 

Wait to sell as property is always going up in value. Never bet the farm so to speak. I am sorry to say that you may have to work 2 jobs to get caught up, spiritual work in the evenings or on weekends to supplement your income and pay down debts.

What do you see for me in establishing my self as an energy healer in the area I am living in right now?
Thanks, thanks, thanks!

I see you are a powerful healer and teacher. Don't worry they are ready for you :

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Dear Lisa,
Thank you for your insight and ability to help others. Me, 07-26-1980, My wonderful boyfriend, 09-08-1973. We have been dating for three years and love each other so much. Currently he works as a butcher and gets peanuts for pay. He is really smart and super talented and good looking. I know that he would be successful in any endeavour that he does. The problem is he hates change. To the point of staying at this job for over 5 years. We both want to get married and have a baby together, but there are so many conflicts. I work as an admin and am starting my own business doing mortgage loans and investing. Ideally he want to go back to school and finish getting his bachelors degree, and become a family therapist. I am not sure if he should just get a new job, or go to school? When I start making good money from my business I would totally support us while he gets his degree. I have been bugging him to give me his information so that I can send out his resume, but like I said he HATES change, so he has been lagging.
Either way I want him to be able to pick up my 5 year old son from the after school day care. Right now I pay over 1,000.00 in day care, and would only have to pay 500.00 if he stayed at the after school program.

What do you see would be the best way to go about this? Do you see me making really good money and being able to support us? I love him so much; I just want to start planning a life with him. Oh yeah, I in all of this am trying to get him to purchase a home with me, so please take that into thoughts as well.

Well you can be successful at home and if you are planning to have another child you will need to make a lot of money in order to take care of them. As far as your boyfriend goes, you cannot change him, love him for who he is or don't have a baby and tie yourself to him.

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I am a 16-year-old teen that has been trying to conceive for nearly half a year now. My period is nearly 3 weeks late now. I went for a test and it was negative but I strongly believe it is false. Could I be pregnant?

 

Are you crazy, you are a baby yourself? Seek counselling fast! I mean it, what makes you think you could handle being responsible for another person's life when it's obvious you cannot handle your own. What kind of life do you think you are mapping out for yourself, welfare, poverty, and a grandma by 35, great huh?
Talk to a grown up and get some help, please. Oh yes and keep in mind your sperm donor could be arrested for statutory rape.

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Hi, my name is Nina, I'm a Libra. Over the last three years, there have been many changes at work. Currently the manager is micromanaging every department and very critical. She blames others for her shortcomings, do you see this situation getting better any time soon or should I look elsewhere for work? Thank You.

 

As hard as it sounds send her love. This will either change her or make her move on. Seriously muster the feeling by thinking about the people you really do love first and then when you have a well of love send it on to her. Please do give it a try.

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Hi Lisa,
I am a middle-aged college grad working in the NY metro area, in a job that is not what I anticipated or was lead to believe in the series of interviews held with high-level management. It is daily grunt work consisting of: boring data entry, phones ringing off the wall, hours on my feet sorting files and physically lifting/hauling boxes. I barely get through each day. The one and only plus is that the job has good benefits. However, I commute home in a state of fatigue daily. Do you have any suggestions, or see any future for me here?
Sandra

 

There is a better life out there for you. You have not wasted your time working for this company, as it will look very good on a resume. I suggest you get looking for something better and with your background you'll see you have no worries getting what you want.

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Will I have healthy children in my future? And if so, How many children? Thank You Lisa. =)

I am not a boardwalk psychic so doing life long readings is not my thing. I can tell you you are fertile, but as I only read for about a years time I can not answer your question completely, just know you can have healthy children, when is another story.

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When will I become pregnant?
HSBC Bank plc

I believe you wish to get pregnant for the wrong reasons. Wanting to be able to be at home and away from the corporate world is not the best reason to have a baby. Make sure you really want to be responsible for another person's life before you do something that could be harder than the job you have now.

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Dear Lisa, do you see me and my friend terry becoming friends again? and if so, when?

No too many negative and hurtful things have been said and once they are out there even thought they are regretted they cannot be taken back.

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Hi Lisa,
if a couple of things id like to ask if that is ok.x I have just split up with my boyfriend, he is very deep. I don't know if he is coming back to me or if he misses me. I am also quite late with my period, so I wonder about that too.
I live in Spain and work is hard to come by, do you think I will stay here or go somewhere else, and if so on my own or with him?
My date of birth is 27-11-1970
His is 7-7-1974 I hope you can help, because funds are that tight I cant afford a test right now.
Kind regards
Mel

 

Well he may have left because he thought you might be pregnant and he just can't handle that right now. So hoping if you are he'll come back is going to be kind of unsuccessful. I think you are not pregnant, but I do feel you are really stressed out and that could be why you are late. Try talking to him, but if he is really difficult then just back off and let him go. Focus on your career. A friend in another EU country would let you come and stay with them if you need a change.

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I am at present going through turmoil and it's with a relationship and breaking up, just wondered if you see us together again?
Its very complicated but was so intense, right now feels like my heart has broken in 2 tho i knew i had to do what I did at time.
Thank you,
Angela

Move on to a new relationship, the old one will never change and you deserve better.

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Am I living with my soul mate right now? Or do you see that the "real one" is someone else that I know? Thank you in advance.

If you were living with your soul mate you would know. If it were the other person you would know. So I think you are more than just confused about these 2 people. Have a good long look at yourself and stop trying to live in a fantasy world.

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I was born may 2 and my husband was born aug. 7we are not preventing pregnancy can you see any babies in our future?

I feel there is a minor physical block that is preventing you from conceiving. See a Dr and perhaps you can have success thru diet or fertility drugs. You can do it though.

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HI LISA I really need your help. My boyfriend just left me after 2 years and im hurt and confused he's just left me with the responsibilities including our son and every since then iv been trying to pick myself up still wondering why he doesn't care!
Do you see anything good happening to me! . Will he try to come back or do I just move on, will he go back to where he's from st.louis mo, and now im really just focused on my music.i want to get my music heard so how do i go about that do i have to travel or what i dont know but please help beacause i dont know what to do. However u can help please do.

 

Wow you do have a lot on your plate. Do your best to get your career going with out sacrificing your job as a parent. Seek child support from the father, he has to be responsible for this mess too and every little bit helps. I do not see you getting back together though; he was just not ready for this kind of commitment. Sorry but he is a bit selfish.

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Hi Lisa
My name is Rhia and i have never been lucky with love. Will i ever find the right person for me? And if so when?

 

Like I've said before you have to love yourself first and be whole and complete on your own, then and only then will true love find you?

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My husband and I have been trying for a baby for about 10mths now with no success, starting to feel like it will never happen, do you think I could be now or will be anytime soon? Also I had a dream last night that I was pregnant but im sure that's just wishful thinking. I was wondering if you could tell me if you can see our financial situation will improve any and if so when's it likely to happen? Can you see children in my future? And how many?

 

Work first to get your finances in order, this way a baby will not be such a strain on your relationship. Once things are in order it should be a breeze to get pregnant.

 

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Hi Lisa, I'm not very good on relationships, but at the moment I'm a single mum. There is a guy I like - short brown hair - light coloured eyes. He comes into town occasionally, that's when I get to see him; some times he's wearing his blue work uniform. There could be an attraction but just unsure at the moment. Am I right or just my thinking? I've dark brown hair & eyes.
Thank you

I feel he recognises you as a good person and thinks you're cute. But I feel he is unavailable, you know like married so steer clear.

 

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Hello Lisa,
I wondered if I could ask a fairly simple question and if you could see What's to happen and perhaps even some spiritual advice? There is a lady (isn't there always!) which I have danced with (salsa Dancing) a few times but not really spoken to her about but I have grown Very intrigued by her and I think she may have noticed me staring at her. Anyway, I want to take things further but can't seem to break a certain barrier. For all I know she may not be interested at all etc.... The Annoying part is I have to wait next week till I see her again. Are you able to throw some tips and possibly see what's likely to happen?
Regards,
C

 

Oh do be careful with this one. I feel she came to dance class for attention and a social life. But unfortunately she is not truly available. She may be in a bad relationship but unwilling to get out of it, so she's looking for someone to make things better. Please use caution.

 

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Dear Lisa,
I am very fond of a British man whom I got to know through work. He seemed to show interest by looking at me and turned away when I looked back. However, he did not reciprocate after I confessed to him recently. I am dying to know if he is gay and do I stand a chance with him eventually if he was proven to be 'straight'? I am sorry that I can't offer you more information apart from his name and age. I would really appreciate it if you could fork out your time to reply to my question.

I don't think he's gay, he's just a bit offended. He is no longer interested because he finds you forward. He is old school and I feel your chance with him is gone.

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Hi Lisa my name is Cherry. I‚m in desperate need of help. I have been dating this Bangladeshi man for about a year and a half; we love each other deeply but we recently had to break up because his parents are forcing him into an arranged marriage next Summer. He begged his parents but they said they would never agree to us Because it is about culture, and the fact that I am Chinese and not a Muslim did not help. He said he had to give up things he loves for the family and that he has accepted reality. I refuse to give up because this is our future happiness I am fighting for and I know he is the one. I am willing to give up everything to be with him (and I know it will not be easy) but it is his family that is hindering us. I have done everything I can physically and metaphysically but I feel my power is limited. Can you please tell me what more I can do to try fight for us? What should I do and when is the best opportunity? Thank you so much.

 

I don't have a lot of hope for this situation. Sorry but blood is thicker than water in these types of cultures and family situations. If you do really want to put more effort into it try after Sept 22nd on a Friday like the 6th of October. But I have to say I do feel your efforts will be in vain. And what's worse is he really does love you.

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Hello
Myself and my husband have been trying for a family without success for the last 13 months. We are at the point now where the next step is to be referred onto a specialist but we are both reluctant to do so due to what we may or may not be told.

Please can you shed any light onto the situation? We have been together for 8 years, both 34 - im a Virgo dob 25.8.72, he is Pisces, dob 19.2.1972
Any advice would be gratefully received
Thank you in anticipation

Well Virgo and Pisces are really being whompped. Read the tarot scopes. I suggest the doctor's methods are important to the situation and you should follow that advice if you really want this baby.

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Hi Lisa,
I am a Capricorn (1/7/54) my husband is a Taurus (4/21/51)...we've had a lot of financial difficulty in the 13 years we've been married...we also have an autistic child, do you see our financial picture improving for the better and will our child get better so he can have a life of his own? We also have another child who is completely "normal" (will be a teenager soon) and know someday he will be able to be on his own.
Please help me answer this question.
Brightest Blessings, Barbara

 

You have paid your dues and soon you will reap the rewards of the many years of hard work. Yes your “normal” son will have a good life and a decent career. Your other son will also be cared for; I feel he is just about to get into a great program that will relieve your worries about his future too. And when he gets in it will free you up to go to work part time and work on your money problems.

 

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