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Lisa has been an acclaimed psychic and proven spiritual counselor for over 15 years and is owner of the Awareness Shops.

Whether your concerns are health, financial, romantic or spiritually related, she can draw out useful information through the use of The Tarot. Through personal experience she is very aware of real life issues and has learnt how to use positive energy and practical humor to deal with difficult situations.

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Hi Lisa
My husband and I have been trying to get pregnancy for over a year. Can you tell me if I'm fertile?
D

Dear D,
I do feel you are fertile, but the time is just not right. I know people say if we all waited for the best time the earth would be a lot less populated, but seriously the universe knows better. Just be patient and it will happen when the time is right.

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Hello Lisa, My husband and I have been trying to conceive, in which we have had no luck so for. I was wondering if possible you could let me know when will I conceive.

Hang in there and keep enjoying the practice time. Too soon you'll be pregnant and raising a family and this alone time will be all gone.

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Hi Lisa,
I have dreams that come true, know when something is going to happen before it is happens, not often, but enough to freak me out. I also have a stronger than normal electrical current running through me. Is that something that is the scope of being a phychic?

Well let me start by saying you are not alone. Many people awaken to their psychic abilities thru dreamtime. Just give it a bit of your attention and maybe keep a journal to come to a better understanding of your give. Due to the electrical energies you may be a natural at psychometry (the reading with psychic touch) couldn't hurt to look into it.

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Dear Lisa,
My name is Lou and my birthday is 12/20/1982. Recently there is this man who has entered my life through work. While we don't see each other really, and we don't know each other very well, I feel connected to him, does this mean anything or am I just looking for romance in an empty place. Also, I just received an e-mail that might have an opportunity to work in a different country for year, however I'm supposed to be in my friends wedding next December. Do you see anything here? Thank you for your insight.

A bit later the same person wrote

If I ever needed you to choose my question to answer it would be now. 12/20/82 DOB. Please I'm stuck in a fork in the road, do I choose to go with a chance to go abroad and lose my friendships for what I would have to do to get there (i.e. miss my best friends wedding), or do I wait it out here and let this opportunity pass and hope and pray that I made the right choice and another opportunity will come. I am really in need of help. Thank you

Sorry to say I feel the work romance is a no go. But don't give up I feel love is coming for you soon. You should not let your friends wedding stand in the way of an opportunity like this. You could always negotiate a trip home, anyway once your hired. Stay on top of things and don't just give your life away to others.

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Hi Lisa
My name is Lisa also. My dob is:6/25. I am wondering what the new year has in store for me in the romance aspect of my life.
Thank you
Blessings

Gemini has had a hard time of it lately in the romance field. April should see things pick up a bit . Your biggest problem is knowing when to flirt and when to let them come to you. 07 should be a good year for you though so try to enjoy it.

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Dear Lisa,
I live in Las Vegas and my boyfriend/fiancée (probably not for long) has been in prison for the past 7 months and recently I have been cheating on him, and now I am late for my period. Sometimes I am late and it means nothing. I don't know if you can tell me this, but am I pregnant?
Anna

Well first I feel you should be honest with your fiancée and break up with him. If you want to sleep with other people the relationship is over. Then do some serious soul searching and ask yourself if you really want to have this baby. Can you really take care of it, mentally and financially? Do you know what you want out of your life?

Get a grip and listen to your head not you libido.

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Hello,
My name is L B, I have been trying to win back an ex-lover, his name is CW. I have tried everything from readings, spells, healings. Have been told he would come back to me and have been told he won't. Also, have been told that he's with someone else and he's not with someone else.

My head is spinning. All want is for him to come back to me. Can you tell if he will come back to me?

Well, first of all you cannot manipulate someone into coming back to you. I don't see much point in you working on this and wasting your time any longer. Work instead to move on and find someone new. After all there must be a reason why you are no longer together right? You can't undo the past, but you can be in charge of your future.

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Been many yrs now since my hubby past on. Do you see a relationship for me?

Oh yes, you are more than ready and love is just about to blossom for you.

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hello lisa
I'm having trouble with a guy(R) it all started in the classroom at our high school, see me and t are not alike you know he's more of a gangster you know how guys are in high school and I'm more of a person that just don't care about school u know missing skipping all the time getting into trouble. well on day in the last period of the day r came over to me and started talk to me i blew him off. well every class period that we had together he would talk to me well one time we got ISS together i was in there for skipping anyways this girl my firend (m) was in there with us and m wrote r a note saying that she liked him and he read it and threw it away and then he gave this guy a a note cuz we can not talk in there all day so he gave me the note saying that m told him that i would do some sexual things to r and if i would do them.i told him maybe you know cuz i really like the guys and i was just going to talk to him and get to know him better and well he gave me his number and asked for mine so i gave it to him.we talked you know well weeks went by i love going to school just so that i could see him i hate weekends cuz i really don't get to see him i hate breaks cuz all i get to do is talk to him. finally i get a call from him well not really cuz his friend ike was the one that called me and he was drunk and r was in the bathroom and well ike saying it was r was talking to me and calling me a b****,so i hang up and call r's cell number well he drunk too and he wants me to come over and i tell him its too late cuz it was 1:30 in the morning and he was talking about how he and ike are going to get in the car and go to the city so i tell r not to get in the car and he said i thought u were mad at me why do u care i said im not mad at u just please don't get in the car he said but what about what m said i told him that we both know its not true he said why is it not true i said cuz you dont want it to happen he said yeah i do.he told me to come over and he gets mad cuz i dont want to come over and chill with him and mike so he hangs up on me well i call him back and he tells me to come over again and i tell him i cant and ike said something to him and r says back i thought she liked me but i guess not and hangs up i call him back and tell him i do and for him to come over here to me and he said he dont want to walk,so finally he says f*** it im going to the city i said r if u get in that car what m said will never happen and he said F*** you then and hangs up wel after we fight for about an hour our last word to each other were i thought u wanted some mac daddy but i guess not i said i never said that,that was the last time i talk to him.what do i do i dont know if he likes me or what i told him i dont want to do anything and for him not to talk to me after that and he said he wouldnt and before when he first started talking to me he didnt even know that i would do anything with him.does he like me or is it all a lie but all i know is that i really like him and when he looks at me its like i cant explain his friends ask him and me why we talk to each other we say we dont know we just doand i dont know what to do.the question is does he like me or not???

your friend that need to know
Aida

Dear Aida
Please pay more attention to your education and less attention to boys. The last thing you need is to have a baby with one of these drunken teenagers. Cause no he don't really like u he just wanna get laid! Somehow I feel you should want a lot more out of life. I know I want more for you. Get a good education please and make a good life for yourself.

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HI Lisa,
I got married last may 05 I'm only 19 and I'm not to sure if he's the right one. He got sent away in June to do some time for something he did before we got together, when he was gone I found out he cheated on me right before we got married and the hard thing is I know what night it was and who it was with. So I tried to move on and I met a great guy but I left him when my husband got out I just need to know if I can trust my husband again or if I need to be with the other guy who I know loves and treated me so good. Please help!! I just recently had a miscarriage it was my husbands baby I don't know if he's the one i need to stay with and try to have a family with. thank you

No do not have a child with this man. Get your act together, get divorced and see as many men as you want once you are separated, but please for everyone's sake use birth control and protect yourself form STDs. What ever possessed you to get married at 19 to a person headed for jail anyway? Try to plan a bit better plan next time please.

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Hi Lisa,
I have met the man of my dreams and we are talking about marriage and children. Do you see me having healthy pregnancy and child?
Thanks
Cat

I think it's wonderful that you are so happy. Please take the next step a little slower an plan things out. Like living arrangements and all the things that go into sharing a good life together. Then when all that's worked out you can plan on a family ad it should happen with ease.

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Can you tell me if António will ask me on a date soon?

Continue to do what your doing and he'll get the idea very soon.

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i recently went through a misscarriage. i was wondering if i will have anthor child . my husband doesnt want any more children this pregnacy was a total fluke since we are very careful and i feel as though this was my last chance.

It's very difficult when both people do not want the same things. If you expect this man to be a good parent then you need to be on the same page about getting pregnant. Honesty and communication are your last chance.

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P L E A S E H E L P M E !

I LOST MY SON IN A FIRE JULY OF 2005. I WAS AT WORK AND HE WAS IN THE CARE OF MY HUSBAND. MY NEIGHBOR CAME SCREAMING INTO MY WORK SAYING (MY APARTMENT WAS ON FIRE AND RICHARD WAS TRAPPED) RICHARD BEING MY ALMOST 4 YEAR OLD SON, WHEN I GOT THERE IT WAS LIKE A BAD DREAM, SMOKE AND FLAMES AND THE HELPLESSNESS OF KNOWING MY BABY WAS UPSTAIRS BURNING AND THE POLICE AND FIRE DEPARTMENT WOULD NOT LET ME GET TO HIM. WELL THERE WERE RUMORS MY HUSBAND WAS NOT IN THE APARTMENT WHEN MY SON CAUGHT IT ON FIRE, THE ARSON DETECTIVE SAID HE DIDNT BELEIVE MY HUSBAND WAS IN THE APARTMENT WHEN IT CAUGHT FIRE, BUT COULD NOT DO ANYTHING BECAUSE THERE WAS NOT ENOUGH EVIDENCE TO PROVE IF HE WAS OR WASNT THERE, SO HE CLOSED THE CASE. MY NEIGHBOR WHO LIVED DOWNSTAIRS FROM US HAD TOLD ME BEFORE THAT MY HUSBAND WAS LEAVING MY SON UPSTAIRS BY HIMSELF EARLY IN THE MORNING WHEN I LEFT FOR WORK, BUT SHE DIDNT LIKE HIM AND I DIDNT KNOW WHO TO BELIEVE. I HAVE NO CLOSURE! IT IS KILLING ME. I CANT LOOK AT MY HUSBAND THE SAME NOT KNOWING THE TRUTH. HE SAYS HE WAS ASLEEP AND THAT HE WAS THERE, BUT WHY WOULDNT HE HEAR OUR BABY SCREAMING IN THE OTHER ROOM. MY SON WAS UNIDENTIFIABLE, AND IT WAS A VERY BAD FIRE, MY SON GOT A CANDLE LIGHTER AND CAUGHT HIS ROOM ON FIRE, THE ARSON DETECTIVE FOUND THE REMAINS OF THE CANDLE LIGHTER BESIDE MY SONS BURNT BODY. PLEASE HELP ME! PLEASE GIVE ME SOME KIND OF CLOSURE! IT IS HURTING ME SO BAD NOT KNOWING! THANK U SO MUCH FOR YOUR TIME, BROKENHEART

Try looking at it this way. Do not blame yourself you had to go to work. Knowing if your husband was there or not is not going to change the facts of the fire. Either way it seems that your husband may not have been the best baby sitter. Either he was there and took no notice of what your son was doing, or he left this child alone. I know you are going thru a terrible time of grief, but can you imagine the guilt your husband is carrying. I suggest counselling to save the marriage if that is what you want. You will get thru this loss but never expect that you will really get over it. Seriously get a good counsellor and you will heal some of this in time.

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Hi Lisa,
I have been wondering if my boyfriend of 2 years will ask me to marry him. Also he and I have had dreams about someone dying. I was told that means someone is pregnant. Is this true? and if so is it me or one of my friends?

I feel your boyfriend wants to wait a little while longer. He is having anxiety about marriage. Maybe something happened to his parents or in his past that has made him question long term commitments. My understanding is that dreaming of a death means transformation not a birth. I would say that this means you wish for the relationship to get to the next stage but he is holding back. Don't get frustrated and ruin all you have invested. Try to be patient and it will all work out ok.

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Hi Lisa,
I have another very frustrating dilemma that I really need your help on. I have a two part question for you; the first part is that I suspect my roommate is sneaking her boyfriend in to live here is he? The second part is what should I do to rectify this situation? I really wouldn't mind so much except I feel like I am walking on egg shells and it's uncomfortable. I really don't wish to be the bad guy (in my case bad girl) here, but it keeps gnawing at the back of my mind and it's blocking all my positive thoughts. I guess what I really wish to know is will things work themselves out without me having to get involved or winding up in conflict with the remainder roommates (including the one involved). Any help on this subject matter will greatly appreciated.
Sincerest Thanks,
L

You can't really be responsible for the actions of others. I'm sure she feels she really needs to be with her boyfriend, but if it's against the rules then perhaps a gentle reminder will be well received. Work hard not to raise your voice or be accusing. But do remind all the roommates about the rules of over night guests. You can get your side across with out conflict. Hang in there.

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Hi,
I have a quick question. What does it mean when someone exhales a "white cloud" or a white puff of smoke? Please keep in mind the person I am asking about is not a smoker, and was not in a room with smokers when this white cloud came out of her mouth. Should we be concerned?

Thank you for your help.

First think about the air temperature, I know that is an obvious one but the right conditions can produce a white film like breath. Esoterically it could be the release of a spirit or the release of an energy that no longer serves the person. Maybe they have been going thru a tough situation and needed to unburden themselves.

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MY BOYFRIEND AND I ARE NOT AS CLOSE AS WE ONCE WERE. I FEEL HIM PULLING AWAY FROM ME. HE SAYS HE LOVES ME, BUT HE DOES NOT HAVE TIME FOR A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW. I FEEL LIKE THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE,BUT HE SAYS THERE IS NO ELSE. I REALLY LOVE HIM,AND WANT TO BRING HIM HOME TO ME.

Hard situation. If you don't trust him that he is not seeing anyone else then your relationship is not as good as you think. However if he's lying and is seeing someone else but is afraid to tell you, then the relationship is not as good as you think it is. Or maybe he does really just need some time away to think things out. In all cases if you don't give him this time you will not get any closer you will only push him away. Stop with the intense grip on the relationship. If it's meant to be it will work out, but if you keep pushing and obsessing he will walk away for sure.

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I really have 2 questions...
1. Will Brandon and i date in the future?
2. Am i pregnant?

C

One is kind of contingent upon the other. If you are pregnant it will change how Brandon looks at dating you don't you think? Guess you will need to wait and see.

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Hi Lisa,
I am seven months pregnant, a cancerian and I have been up and down with my hormones. Recently at work I forwarded on an Email without opening it up and realised it was sexually explicit. I am really worried I may lose my job. Please Help.
W

Just be honest and say you have baby brains. That you are truly sorry but you did not realise the content. Honesty is the best policy, seriously. Just own up to it and everything will be ok.

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Lisa,
My husband and I have been struggling with infertility for two years. We are moving on with further treatments that are going to be very expensive. I really want to know when I will have my baby. When will I get pregnant? Thank you, J

Stay positive, I feel something will come to light soon about why you have not become pregnant yet. I feel it has to do with something on your husbands end of things. Perhaps his diet or something unusual is blocking the process. Continue to do as the doctors say and it will all work out by the fall 07.

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My daughter hasn't been able to conceive after a 2 years of trying. Her and her husband really want a child. Will she conceive on her own in the next few months? If so, multiple births run in the family, do you see her having a multiple birth? If not, will fertility drugs work for her?

Thanks much, Grandmother in waiting.

She will need some medical help but all will be well. It is possible she will have twins, but she will need to take special care of herself during the pregnancy. I do feel she will be able to carry to term though. Soon be patient.

Hi Lisa,
I have a wonderful Great Dane that I am showing along with a 12 week old Great DAne that I plan to put in the show ring. Do you see my Danes doing well in the show ring and getting their championships??

All the hard work you and your pooches have put into this will pay off very soon. I feel the younger one is looking forward to breeding other little winners.

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Hello Lisa,
My name is C and I would like to ask you where you feel my relationship with R is going. My birthday is 11/22/1967 and his is 05/03/1977. I feel we are soulmates and that we belong together, but right now there are some huge obstacles in our way. I truly love this man and feel that he loves me too, do you feel that is also correct? If there is a future with this person for me, when do you perceive this to happen? Will he be the one I marry? And do you think I will ever have a child? Thank you so much for your help Lisa. I look forward to your answers!

When ever someone uses the words soulmate and do you think he loves me too in the same question it does not boad well for their future. If he is your soul mate you would not have to ask me if he loves you. Seriously insecurity is one thing but actually asking me how he feels if he's your soulmateÉwell. I suggest you work on your huge obstacles and if you get thru all that and are still together none of the other little things will matter. I will say though that the difference between 30 and 40 is sometimes greater than you think, astrologically speaking it's a Saturn world apart, so proceed with caution.

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Hello Lisa,
I know that I have psychic abilities and would like to help people with them. Do you think I have a shot at doing this at all and how well do you think I would do? Is this something I should even pursue? Thank you for your help Lisa!
Sincerely, C

Yes it is always worth giving time and energy to developing your psychic abilities. It can be a major healing process for you and you may end up helping many others too. Best wishes.

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Dear Lisa,
We have four young boys and have always dreamed of having a girl. We have almost given up due to the fact on my husbands side of the family there are 15 grandchildren and only 2 of them girls. This month I think maybe I have become pregnant, not quite sure yet as it is a few days too early to tell. Just wondered if you had any information that would be helpful to me and give me some kind of hope for that mother daughter connection I am longing for. Thank you very much for your time and God Bless!!!

Yes I feel you are pregnant, but it may very well be boy number 5. Sorry. Before you got pregnant this time you could have asked about how to eat and such to ensure a girl baby. So here's to next timeÉ

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Hi there Lisa, I have read through some of your messages on your site and have decided that you are the one that can probably give me the best advice..

So here goes.. I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a few months now... He is 13yrs older then me and never been married or even close to marriage for that matter.. Which makes me believe that he is a commitment phobe... anyways things have been great and of course we have had our ups and downs and breakups but lately he has been dealing with some disappointing news about the sell of his company, been working lots of hours and stresses included in this... But he has gotten distant from me.. I don't get the "honey" "babe" "sweetheart" comments anymore and though he tells me he is just going through stress i wonder is this a sure sign that he wants to breakup with me but just feels too guilty to do so??? Please help me...

Thank you,
Confused in Canada!!

Oh you're dating a commitment phobe alright. If you want to stay with him it will be trickie. You will have to convince him you don't expect anything in order to get it. Ask yourself “is he really worth it” I just don't see you playing this game with him. You can be supportive thru the stressful time and then be honest about your future needs, then let him go if he can't deal, don't waste your time.

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There's a guy that i have known for quite some time now but we have only been friends. Because i started dating a friend of his before i even met him. Now they are always around each other so I will never know if he's interested in me or not. I am very interested in knowing. He wouldnt tell me because they are friends and he probably doesnt want to ruin that but is there any way that you can help me find out whats going on?

You know how there is a sisterhoodÉthat a girl will not date her friend's love interest. Well there is a brotherhood too. He will not disrespect his friend to go out with you. His friendship means more to him as well as his interguity. There really is nothing you can do about it.

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FIVE MONTHS AGO MY BOYFRIEND OF 10 YEARS WALKED OUT ON ME AND OUR 5 YEAR OLD SON FOR ANOTHER WOMAN I THOUGHT IT WAS OVER FOR GOOD BUT A WEEK AGO HE COME BACK WITH ALL HIS CLOTHS I LET HIM IN OF COURSE HIS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE THE NEXT DAY HE NEVER COME BACK HE WENT BACK TO THAT WOMAN HIS CLOTHS STILL AT MY HOUSE THE QUESTION IS DOES HE REALLY WANNA COME HOME OR HIS JUST PLAYING WITH ME AND MY SON'S FEELINGS

He is a looser. Sorry but someone has to snap you out of this. I know 10 years is a large investment of time as well as having a child with him, but he is not your man anymore. Get rid of him, he made the choice and now you have to live with it. You will do much better and be happier with someone you can truly trust that really loves you. The sooner you boot out this looser the better off you'll be.

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Hi Lisa,
I am going to be doing Invitro Fertilization in about 2 months and wanted to know if you see it being successful. We have waited many years for this and I'm praying it works. Thanks for your help.

Yes it will work if you follow everything the doctors say. It is an expensive process and it must be followed to the letter to achieve a pregnancy. Treat your body well, eat right and get lost of rest. Relax and don't stress yourself. It will be ok.

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Hi Lisa,
Can you tell me if I am pregnant or not?
S

Sorry no I don't feel that you are.

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Hi Lisa,
I wonder if you can help me with the question. Is my financial situation improve? And if so when?
Thanks allot
G

It will take a few months to come right. There are a lot of negative things going on out there in our economy and it has effected so many people is not so nice ways. Things will get better so keep on looking for ways to get things back to rights and a positive cash flow.

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Dear Lisa,
just one question is on my mind...i'm 17 weeks pregnant and would like to know if i'm having a boy or a girl

i'd really appreciate your time

regards
Amy

I'm much better at this when I can see your belly, but I'd bet boy.

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